Hey H & A,

As we journey through life, we find that some lessons are harder than others. Today, I want to talk to you about a universal human experience: friendship.

You know, being friends with someone isn’t just about shared jokes or having someone to hang out with on weekends. It’s about those 2 a.m. conversations, the shared secrets, the mutual respect, and sometimes, the silent understanding that words can’t capture. It’s the warmth you feel when you’re with someone who truly gets you.

Your mum, beyond being your mum and my wife, is my anchor and my closest friend. She’s the listening ear, the warm hug on a cold day, and the laughter in my world. And our relationship stands testament to the fact that true friendship, the kind that weathers all storms, is built over time. It’s not just built on shared moments but on trust, understanding, and patience.

But like the most delicate flowers, friendships need nurturing. They thrive on honesty and wilt in the shadow of neglect. We can sometimes forget their value, only realizing their importance when there’s a void.

I’ve often spoken about Uncle C, a friend whose bond with me was as deep as the ocean. We celebrated highs, supported each other during lows, and stood side by side through life’s challenges. Yet, as with many stories, there came an unexpected turn. He retreated into a world of his own, and our once unbreakable bond seemed to fade. It was a reminder that everyone has their battles, some more silent and deeper than others. And sometimes, even the strongest bonds get tested.

However, the essence of our story isn’t in the loss but in the moments we shared, in the laughter, the shared meals, the late-night talks, and the adventures. And this is what I hope you understand: It’s not about how long a friendship lasts, but how deep it runs.

As you both step into the world, you’ll meet countless souls. Some will touch your lives briefly, like a passing cloud, while others will be your shelter during life’s storms. Embrace every friendship, learn from every experience, and remember to be kind, understanding, and forgiving.

And here’s something crucial: Always communicate. If you ever feel hurt or left out, speak up. Sometimes, a simple conversation can mend the deepest cracks.

As you both journey forward, I hope you find friends who stand by you, cheer for you, challenge you, and most importantly, help you grow. Because, my dear H & A, that’s the true essence of friendship.

With all the love in the world,

Dad